Starting 2016 Well

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After the feast comes the reckoning, the saying goes.

Every New Year many of us analyze what we must change to improve our life quality.  The two categories that almost always top the list for health reasons are increasing physical activity and eating healthier.

Focusing on lifestyle rather than on exercising and dieting, is often times more effective and everlasting because lifestyle has a positive effect as it implies a change for life.  The diet of the Latin cultures includes many alternatives that include all food groups that makes tweaking your diet in a wholesome direction easier.

You may ask, how do I begin?  A simple way is by steps.  Making small gradual changes is easier than changing a whole system.  For instance, making an effort to switch from whole milk to skim milk and drinking water instead of soda contributes to consuming lesser calories.  Every step counts.

If you like salads, a quick way to dress them is using just lime or lemon juice and pepper plus a little salt, if desired, or using a seasoned vinegar instead of a processed bottled dressing.  Grilled, griddled, or roasted vegetables simply drizzled with olive oil and topped with fresh chopped herbs and a few chile flakes or fresh chiles are exquisite and acquire a gourmet touch.

Focusing on leaner cuts of animal proteins and removing the skin of chicken and fish and the visible fat of chicken, pork and beef, has compounding benefits as fattier foods contain three times the calories of regular foods. Venturing into vegetable proteins and learning to pair them with other foods to make them whole can lead you to discover new ways of eating healthier too.

For a delicious treat after a heavy meal, fruit instead of a decadent dessert is also a better option with lesser calories and better nutrition.  To celebrate the New Year below is a recipe for a quick and easy Fruit Cocktail.

And lastly, eating fresh and artisan foods and food free of hormones, chemicals, preservatives, and mysterious ingredients will make your heart and taste buds dance too!

 

5 Tips for Facing Your Networking Fears

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It’s odd to think that all the skills you used when you were in middle school and high school and maybe college to navigate the lunchroom and parties hold true in business. Yet, they do.

Imagine you are a new student, walking alone into a middle school lunchroom. You might wonder where to sit, who will ask you to join your table, and whether you will be able to keep up on the conversation.

Or maybe these thoughts never crossed your mind. Maybe you always just walked into a lunchroom and owned it, or sat off to the side and watched what was going on. At parties, were you the last to know about it, or were you the one who was welcoming others in and setting up all the activities to make it amazing?

After one of our first networking events together, my client, Harvey Mackay, No. 1 New York Times bestselling author of Swim With The Sharks Without Being Eaten Alive, told me, “You’re a pretty good carpet sweeper.”

I looked at him, confused, and wondered whether it was a compliment or an insult.

“What does that mean?” I asked.

Harvey said, “You did an amazing job of meeting everyone in the room and getting their business card and a few facts about them.”

I was still confused. That was my job! Plus, I only had two hours to meet all 50 people, or at least 80 percent of them.

Here are five tips to help you the next time you face your networking fears:

1. Know why you are in a room or at an event

What do you want to accomplish? If you’re not sure, don’t go. It’s hard to be purposeful and prepared with what you will say about your business if you don’t have clear goals for what you want to get out of the event, or if you don’t know how you can help other people advance their goals.

Bring your business cards and your best smile. But keep your hands free so you don’t look like a fumbler as you take the other person’s card.

2. Arrive early

The beauty of many of the online event lists is you can see who is going to the event before you arrive. And many industry events send out attendance sheets ahead of time so you can make notes of what you can do for the other person or how they might be a helpful relationship to nurture. You want to know who is in the room and be able to speak intelligently to them about their business.

But if you weren’t able to see the attendance list ahead of time, arriving early lets you review the name tags and see who you would like to meet.

3. Go with another person

Yes, it’s back to the high school lunchroom. It’s easier to get the most out of an event if you go with someone who can introduce you to other people.

And it doesn’t hurt if you can be the one to introduce them. I recently guided a friend around an event and connected him to six people that will help advance his business relationships. It was a great feeling to know that he made relationships and it made me appear to be well connected, confident and capable of speaking about his business. We walked out of the event together and were able to recap how the event had gone and how productive it had been for both of us.

4. Survey the room and mingle

People always clump together. I like to start at an event with the group of people near the front of the room or the bar, as they are often the lively ones. I introduce myself without being rude. I do it by being curious about what they are talking about, and speak up when an opening presents itself.

People want to get to know you, but don’t be the one who talks incessantly. If you’re not sure how to engage in conversation, consider the book How To Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. A Toastmasters group might help you to practice your speaking. Be able to talk to people on the outside of the room or that are in a small group. Welcome others into your circle and always be positive. People will remember you if you are pleasant, polished and not too upbeat.

5. Know what you are going to say

This sounds easier than it is, but it’s hard to be able to speak intelligently at an event in a loud room when the pressure to connect is on. So practice. Be clear on why you want to meet someone when they say they are a project manager or an executive or prospect. Preparing ahead of time makes you more confident to do the job that you are meant to do: meeting new people and expanding your network.

If your goal is to get more done, you need at least 25 people in your network to make this possible. Whether you start from the inside of the room and work out, or from side to side, see if you can sweep across a room of between 25 and 50 people and meet at least 80 percent of them. Be sure to follow up with them if the conversation gets that far.

Sweeping a room can be tough, but it is part of doing business. Just remember that the rewards outweigh the work it takes to make these contacts. Meeting people can be one of the most exciting and rewarding parts of an event.

Vendor Management: Do You Really Know Your Vendors?

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I would like to continue my post from last week on the topic of Vendor Management and how vital vendors are to the success of every organization. If you missed last week’s article, you can find it in my LinkedIn Posts: “Vendor Management is Key to Staying in Business—Any Business!” Through the years I have worked with many vendors of all kinds and I’ve had the opportunity to form long-lasting relationships with many of them. As a best practice and one of the strategies I used when starting the DeNovo bank back in 2005 was to obtain bids from at least two to three vendors who offered the same services so we could choose the right one for the bank. This strategy served us well and we were able to choose, almost 100% of the time, the right vendor for the product or service the bank needed.

In addition to doing due diligence with each vendor to ensure they are the right fit for the bank, to know they will exist long-term, and that they will keep the bank’s data safe, it is also important to form a good relationship with your vendors. As the CFO and COO of the bank, I dealt with all the vendors, which included reading and signing every contract, learning about their services, and protecting the bank at every level. I took that responsibility seriously and considered getting to know the vendors at the personal level of great importance. I dealt with the sales person initially but I also got to know other key people in the company. This proved to be a great strategy when sales reps left the company or my lead relationship manager was promoted to other positions. For example, with the financial auditors, I formed a long-term relationship with the relationship manager/partner, the lead auditor, and some of the staff auditors who came to the bank each year to do the work. I did the same with the compliance auditors at a different firm, the IT auditors, and even with the regulators for the State chartered bank.

It is also very important and a great vendor management strategy to diversify your vendor base. For example, even though I made relationships with various local accounting firms who provide similar services to banks, I chose separate firms to conduct the compliance audits, IT external audits, financial audits, loan reviews, and tax return preparation. This strategy works great when it’s time to rotate firms so they don’t get too familiar with your bank. It is also a best practice for checks and balances within the bank.

As a business owner it is extremely important that you establish professional relationships but also getting to know your vendors at the personal level. Remember they are people too. By having these relationships, you gain favor with them and grace during the hard times. You can also form partnerships when a vendor wants to roll out a new product, for example. You can be a beta test site and get their product for free or at a reduced cost for a while. They may also give you free PR when marketing their new product.

Now as a consultant myself I have reaped the rewards of having all those relationships and, in some cases, friendships. My goal is to provide my bank clients with several options of vendors who provide bank services (with no commissions or hidden agenda from my part). I simply want to be a resource to my clients so they can then choose (like I did when I started the bank) the right vendor to meet their needs. In order for me to recommend vendors to my clients, however, I need to know them and trust them that they will take good care of my clients.

So if you are a banker or business owner, get to know your vendors at the personal level and form long-term relationships because it will pay off. You will benefit from referrals from your own vendors and your clients will benefit as well when you refer vendors to them by having the opportunity to choose the right vendor to meet their specific needs.

At Malzahn Strategic (http://www.malzahnstrategic.com) we work with banks that want to increase their profitability by improving their operational efficiencies. We focus on Strategic Planning, Enterprise Risk Management and Talent Management. Vendor Management is part of Enterprise Risk Management and we can help you establish a solid, yet simple, program. We strive to be a resource to our clients and, therefore, have relationships with many local and national vendors that provide complementary services to ours. Also, visit Marci’s personal website for speaking topics at http://www.marciamalzahn.com.

New Year’s Resolutions for Leaders

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It’s that time of year again, when we resolve with best intentions to do things differently in the new year. As I look forward and think about our growing organization, I thought I’d share some of my leadership resolutions with you. Read, adopt, adapt or recycle—it’s up to you.

  1. Manage by wandering around. As an introvert, I will hole up in my office if left to my own devices. In the coming year, I will try to get out of my office and wander down the hall (a short walk) and check in with folks.
  2. Seek input from others. It’s easy to get caught up in my own thoughts as I consider new strategies for growth. I resolve to ask others for input and ideas, engaging in the healthy dissension and debate necessary to ensure the best possible outcomes.
  3. Listen more and talk less. Enough said.
  4. Encourage others. As a leader, it is easy to fall into the trap of being critical or giving advice (solicited or otherwise) when sometimes all someone needs is a little encouragement. I will be more mindful of those opportunities to simply reinforce the direction someone is headed (I’ll do this with my kids, too!).
  5. Build my external network. In a service-based business, it is easy to focus attention on those you know, but the reality is that the next engagement might come from someone you haven’t yet met. By reaching out to new people, I will keep things fresh and be exposed to new ideas and new ways of thinking.
  6. Communicate proactively about changes in the business. Keeping others informed is critical to the success of transformation and growth.
  7. Take more risks. Get out of my comfort zone and try new things while being open to opportunities that present themselves along the way.
  8. Ask others for help. Recognize that requesting help is not a sign of weakness or ignorance; it is a hallmark of strength and confidence.

I could add many more to the list but will stop here.

What do you resolve to do as a leader in 2016?

This is Why Your Team is Struggling

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You think you’ve done all the right things.

Set up the right systems to make the work easy.  Hired the skilled people to do the work and meet the standard.  You’re the right kind of leader; encouraging, motivational, supportive.

But your team is struggling. Why?

The inability to resolve conflict.

Don’t poo-poo this. Conflict comes in all shapes and sizes and impacts individual success more than you think.

It’s not likely that you have your own version of the Ultimate Fighting Championship going on in the office.  We’re talking more about the teeth-grinding, pulling-my-own-hair-out kind of conflict.

Conflict is almost always about communication.

Imagine this scenario: Bob is not a details guy.  He just wants to reach the goal. Fred is a details guy.  He manages those details so that the goal can be reached.  But if they can’t understand how the other needs to hear and/or receive information, it will cause conflict.  That conflict might be frustration and misunderstandings, which might lead to lost time and efficiency.  It’s even possible you might not reach the end goal.

Here’s another picture: Bob and Fred can’t swim in the open water by themselves and be part of the team.  They need to be in the same ship, crewing together using their unique advantages to be successful.

Resolving conflict means learning to understand the languages within your team.

Optimizing your team’s success is syncing up the ship’s crew for smooth sailing. Even in choppy waters, this kind of crew works together as one for an easy ride.

 

My Biggest Accomplishment as a Manager – It’s Not What You Think!

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As the end of the year approaches and the New Year is about to begin, we find ourselves going through our accomplishments and making new goals for the next year. I usually ponder on my previous year’s accomplishments and their significance. I ask myself, did I make a difference in the lives of others last year?

When people ask me to share about “my accomplishments in life,” I surprise them with my response because it’s not what they expect to hear. When accomplishments are usually measured by successful companies that a person starts, how many degrees you have attained, or the titles you hold at work, I don’t consider my biggest accomplishment to be any of that—even though I helped start bank successfully, published two books, and have held several C level titles during my career.

As a manager and mentor, the first word of advice I give to first time supervisors is: “Get to know your employees.” Employees are people with feelings, not machines that need to produce to increase the bottom line. When you take care of your employees and get to know them at the personal level, the rest comes by itself. They will perform consistently beyond your expectations. I have a high expectations for myself and for those who work for me. I strive for excellence at every level and try to be an example to my employees in everything I do so I can expect the same of them. And they follow. Because my employees know that I care for them and their families, they don’t want to let me down—I even learn their pets’ names!

In the past twenty years of management, I have laid off employees, fired a few for non-performance, and also promoted all my employees at some point, without exception. I remember, one time I had to lay off an employee who was very nice but we had to eliminate the position. Because the rest of the staff knew how much I cared for the employee, they felt sadder about me having to do the job than the poor employee who was being laid off! But they knew I was hurting for that person. The separation went extremely well and there were no hard feelings. The same situation happened again when I had to fire an employee because of not performing the job well. I was so sad to have to do it but had to because it was the best for the organization. Sometimes we forget that the Human Resources professionals have feelings too and that they (most of them at least) do care about people. That is probably one main reason why they chose the HR profession to begin with.

So, one of my biggest accomplishments in life—and my biggest one as a manager—is that I have never lost an employee because of a bad relationship with me. My secret? Again, get to know your employees as individuals. Invest time in them, nurture the relationship, and have high expectations of them. Believe in them and trust that they can do the job they were hired to do. At the same time, I firmly believe in providing employees with the tools and training necessary to do the job. That is the company’s responsibility to ensure success. If in the end, you do have to fire an employee because of incompetence, at least they will leave knowing that you cared about them. Those employees will leave with no hard feelings which can protect the organization from potential lawsuits. Another thing to remember is, of course, to take all the steps according to the law and ensure proper documentation is completed prior to letting an employee go.

Enjoy being a manager. You have huge potential to influence your employees’ lives in a positive way. Take advantage of that opportunity and develop your employees. Train them and give them career opportunities. Brainstorm with them as to what else they would like to do and promote them if you have the power to do so. They will follow you and will work with you to accomplish the vision of the company.

Improving management skills is part of Talent Management. At Malzahn Strategic (http://www.malzahnstrategic.com) we work with banks that want to increase their profitability by improving their operational efficiencies. Talent Management is a key area we focus on as well as executive coaching. By having happy employees, your become more efficient because they’re not wasting their time complaining or looking for other jobs. In the end, good management skills do improve the bottom line.

Happy New Year!

5 Ways to Ask Your Network for Help

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And I use the term “network” loosely, as it could be people they’ve worked with for years or people they just met yesterday.

Yes, it’s human nature to be cautious and to consider carefully what you are asking for. You do not want to overstep your bounds.

I know I personally used to hesitate from asking, but I now only pause, since I have figured out how to ask by sharing my expertise — which I know will help other people reach their goals.

Here are five ways to reach out:

1. Make a specific request

Many people I work with want to do more speaking. Ask people in your network if they are on the boards of associations or organizations and might need a speaker. Tell them what you are doing and that you have the experience to be able to give a great speech or that you’ve spoken to a Rotary already and you want to do more speaking in 2016. If one person in your network introduces you to one person, then you have expanded your network.

2. Ask for an introduction

This sounds so basic, but we don’t do it. And I don’t care for the LinkedIn introduction feature. I prefer to ask my network directly by phone or email if they will connect me to a person that I know they know. I tell them what I am looking for and I ask them to introduce me. I always give them the opportunity to say no, but almost every time they say, of course I will connect you. This is using your voice to reach more people.

3. Ask for exposure to their networks

Many people work in organizations or associations where they post weekly or monthly blogs. Ask to be a guest author and post your content in a newsletter that goes out to your target audience. People read emails from their associations, but may not read an email from an unknown person. By posting a blog you are stepping out and saying what you stand for and can share your expertise. Again, a great way to increase your visibility.

4. Ask for a new client

You’ve probably been asked about your ideal client. Can you answer the question? Can you answer it quickly? Can you be specific? This is a great question to ask your network. So for example, if you’re meeting with your accountant, you can say, “I’m looking to expand into the manufacturing space, do you know anyone who runs a business that I could call to learn more about the industry?” So, you didn’t ask for the account. You asked for more info and that makes it easier for your accountant to make the introduction. In fact, he or she might want to join you for a lunch or a quick meeting.

5. Ask what you can do for them

People talk about reciprocity in networking. To deepen the relationship, take the time after a meeting or a networking event to call the person who made the referral to find out more about what he or she does. Ask, “How can I help you, and what do you need?” Often, people are so startled that you genuinely want to help that they will ask you what they can do for you. And then you ask for an introduction or for them to keep you mind if they hear of anyone who needs your services.

Starting a conversation is one of the easiest ways to expand your network. Add value, add your expertise by sharing one or two items of interest that will make you memorable. Ask for what you want, and please be polite when you ask.

Managing the Holidays When You Are In A Long Distance Relationship

By Megan Bearce, LMFT

Are you or someone you know in a long distance relationship or commute so far that your only quality time together is on the weekends?  For these couples, the holiday season can bring added stress and overwhelm. You might wonder why that is. Wouldn’t they be excited to spend more time together? The answer is both yes and no, so having strategies for managing the holidays can make it a more enjoyable time for everyone. Here are 5 ways to make your mood this holiday season “Ho Ho Ho!” instead of “Oh no!”

1. Manage expectations by planning a realistic holiday schedule

Late December through New Year’s Eve finds many people taking vacation days to spend with family and friends. If you have been separated for long periods of time or typically only see each other on the weekends, you both may have a long list of what you’d like to do during that time off. For people who super commute or travel often for business, their ideal vacation might be lounging around the house watching movies or getting together with friends they rarely have time to see. For the spouse who is home managing kids and household responsibilities, they may want to escape to a spa or need help with projects that have been put off most of the year. And here in lies the problem. Each has their own ideas about how that vacation time should be spent and so tip number one is to manage expectations. Making assumptions is an easy way to get into conflict so I recommend taking 30 minutes in early December to plan out the family calendar until the end of the year. Each person, and the kids too, can make a list of how they would like to spend that time. Then, see how it fits together. Does one week have you out every night and no time to relax? Did you plan a date night or two? How many obligations are ones you feel like you “should” do vs. really wanting to? Can you say no to a few of those this year?

2. Cook a meal together

A great way to connect, have fun, and learn is to cook together as a family. I suggest choosing at least one night during your holiday to plan, shop, and make a meal together. If one person tends to do the majority of the cooking on a regular basis, assign them something easy. If you have children, this is a great opportunity to teach them life skills such as healthy meal planning, how to grocery shop (what to look for in produce, price comparison), math skills (fractions via measuring cups, addition or multiplication for meal servings), chemistry (baking soda makes batter rise when mixed with certain ingredients like milk), team work, and the pride of making a delicious meal. You could pick a theme for the meal, Italian or Chinese dishes, or tie it to a movie you might watch after dinner. French food followed by Ratatouille, for example. While eating, you can take turns asking each other questions from Table Topic cards. These cards pose interesting questions and come in a variety of themes including Family, Couples, and What Would You Do. However you decide to come together, a night of reconnecting ideally will produce lots of fun memories and maybe even start a yearly tradition.

3. Give and get great gifts the low-stress way

Leisure time is at a premium for most people, but especially so for super commuters and their families. Giftster.com and its app allow you to create private groups accessible from computers or smart phones where each person can post their wish list and even include links to where to buy the items. You can also use the site to organize a Secret Santa group and avoid duplicate gift giving. How does this help? First off, you save time! No need to drive from store to store or browse website-to-website trying to guess what your loved ones would like. No standing in line, no battling for parking spaces, no standing in even longer return lines when you get the same sweater from 3 people! And since many planes, trains, and buses are now equipped with Wi-Fi, commuters can point, click, and gift in route.

Another challenge of gift giving when your time at home is limited is keeping it all a surprise. Once you’ve purchased the gifts, how do you make sure no one is peeking? Keep those presents a secret by shipping gifts to your neighbor’s house or use an Amazon locker. Available in some US cities, your package is sent to a secure location and will stay there for up to 3 days until you can pick it up. A nice feature, especially when news reports about “porch pirates” are becoming more frequent.

4. Plan vacation time for the New Year

Reconnecting with loved ones in meaningful ways is an extremely important part of maintaining all types of long distance relationships and can go a long way in helping cope with a super commute. I had the privilege of being interviewed for an article about couples who commute and contributed to 5 tips on coping with a marathon commute to work. Here are the main points and you can read the details of each at http://www.today.com/money/5-tips-coping-your-marathon-commute-work-t40851

  • Get regular exercise and rest
  • Eat healthy
  • Make time for mental downtime
  • Stay connected with friends and family
  • Reconnect with loved ones after extended commutes

5. Logistics and scheduling

Logistics and scheduling can be tricky when you are frequently apart.  It may sound silly, but I recommend that you set aside some time over the holidays to plan more time together. Using an online scheduling program that you all have access to, or if you like to do things the old fashioned way, print out all 12 months of the new year, and together look at each month, entering events you know are happening. Don’t forget school vacations, any weddings or reunions, tournaments, visits from relatives, and those holidays that some people have off and others don’t. Planning ahead in this way also gives you plenty of lead-time to try and get the best deal possible on airfare and hotels. Most importantly, making a conscious effort to designate time together at the start of the year helps insure you WILL have that quality time together. Life, especially with children, gets busy quickly and weekends fill up fast.

In the U.S., long-distance marriages increased by 23% between 2000 and 2005, according to census figures analyzed by the Center for the Study of Long Distance relationships. In 2005, roughly 3.6 million married people in the U.S. lived apart for reasons other than marital discord, the center estimates. – WebMD.com

No matter what holidays you and your loved ones celebrate, ideally those days are filled with laughter and memory making. Use the holiday season to strengthen your love and connection.  Managing expectations, incorporating strategies for lowering holiday stress, and planning time together are three ways to help make that happen.  Physical separation doesn’t have to mean emotional distance for super commuter couples or couples in long distance relationships.

Succession Planning – Is It Only for the CEO?

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When we think of succession planning, we immediately think of the CEO and/or President of a company. And that is crucial to have in place or at least for the Board of Directors to have documented discussions about their succession plan. However, part of enterprise-wide risk management is to think of the entire company as a whole. Community banks face the challenge that because they are small, they don’t have the luxury of having depth of staff. Therefore, one person ends up wearing several hats—sometimes too many. From one perspective, that is a great opportunity for employees because they get to learn about the various areas of the bank and that makes them more marketable. From the risk perspective, however, this situation presents a challenge for banks if that key employee leaves, gets promoted to another position, or simply goes on vacation for a week!

The topic of succession planning falls under various areas of bank management. Succession planning is part of Talent Management, which entails assessing the talent of the organization to see if there are internal candidates to potentially fill key positions within the bank. Talent Management should be integrated into the bank’s Strategic Plan so the bank can clearly see the type of talent needed in the future. At the same time, succession planning is critical to enterprise risk management because if the bank’s leader is no longer there, the bank must have a plan to implement immediately. I call it “disaster recovery plan” for the CEO. But what about the other crucial positions in the organization such as the operations person who has been with the bank for 30 years? What about the employee who knows how everything is done and holds an immense amount of knowledge in his or her head? Who will do their jobs when they move on—whether that’s unexpectedly or planned?

When we work with bank clients on Talent Management, we first identify all the key positions throughout the organization—regardless of title. Then we implement a backup plan for all the critical positions of the bank, which includes cross training employees and establishing procedures that anyone can follow. Having backup and cross training are two strategies that avoid a crisis not only on unexpected situations but also for the planned vacations, so bank operations can continue to run smoothly while key employees are out. The next step is to writethe Succession Plan for all critical positions and make it part of your Strategic Plan. Regulators usually ask for the CEO and senior management team Succession Plan but it is wise to also have it ready for other vital positions in the organization.

Lean In, Lean Out—What’s a Woman to Do?

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I was born too late to have been inspired by the wave of the feminist movement led by Gloria Steinem and her contemporaries, and I wasn’t wearing a bra yet when women were burning them. The origin of the feminist movement can be traced back to the 14th century when Christine de Pizan, a French poet, became one of the first women to earn a living by writing. Interestingly, the word “feminism” was first coined in 1837 by a man—Charles Fourier, a utopian socialist and French philosopher. The modern feminist movement began near the close of the 19th century, with the push for women’s suffrage, and has traveled through the 20th century on the waves of equality, affirmative action, women’s health, the glass ceiling, and many other powerful and polarizing issues. There are two women who are serious contenders for the 2016 presidential election—we’ve come a long way, baby.

But have we? When I look at my personal bookshelf, I count more than 20 titles having to do with women in business, including:

These authors, all of them notably expert in their field, encourage women to embrace their femininity, be one of the boys, lean in, rethink the rules of the game, and so on. Has anyone besides me noticed that there aren’t many books out there on how to be a man in business? Or are all other leadership books dedicated to our male counterparts by default?

Having been a woman in business for more than 25 years, and a reasonably successful one at that, here’s what I know and believe:

  • Men and women are different from one another—biologically, physiologically, psychologically and neurologically
  • All humans are deserving of equality, regardless of their similarities or differences
  • Women and men are likely to be most successful when playing to their unique strengths and leveraging their own capabilities
  • If you are in a work environment or role that demands something of you other than who you are, move on.

Fifteen years ago, my executive coach shared a quote that I’ve never forgotten: “Leadership is authentic self-expression that adds value.” It doesn’t matter what your chromosomal structure is—define success on your own terms and lead from your heart.

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